Hope for Mature, Godly Men
I John 2:12-17
Series on “Our Mission” (part 11)
John writes letters of encouragement to a church. He talks about “little children” in the faith, “fathers” in the faith, and “young men” in the faith. The terms are somewhat generic and do not exclude women. It underscores the need for all kinds of people at different levels of spiritual maturity. It particularly underscores the importance of having “fathers” in the faith who live for more than money, sex and power and actually have a legacy that continues into future generations.
THREE KINDS OF PEOPLE THE CHURCH NEEDS
- Little children (new babes in the faith who are immature), vs. 12 – “I am writing to you, little children, because your sins are forgiven for his name’s sake and because you know the Father?” Have you been overwhelmed by the fact that your sins are forgiven and that God has become our good Dad? If you have had that experience, do you still have the “first love” of your new birth, or have you become stale and lost your amazement for grace?
- Fathers (and Mothers, the spiritually mature), vs. 13 – “I am writing to you fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning.” Do you have fathers and mothers in the faith who don’t just know about God, but know God and do you aspire to be like them?
- Young Men (and women, maturing Christians), vs. 13 – “I am writing to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one…. And you are strong, and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.” Do you have these marks in your life? Are you growing in the Word, meditating on it, and connecting with other Christians? Are you growing in Christ? Are you different today than two years ago?
THE SPECIAL NEED OF FATHERS IN THE FAITH, I.E. GODLY MEN
- Why the Chinese church is made up of 80% women
- Why modernity attacks manhood
1. The pagan view of manhood (fierce but not tender)
2. The Confucian view of manhood (scholar, breadwinner, but often emotionally detached from family)
3. The modern, western view of modern (soft men)
- Why Jesus is the only path to healing for men. He is the only man’s man (fierce) who is also tender with women and children. See him casting the money changers out of the temple and his relationship with children and people like the adulterous woman.
- Why men need to band together (“fight clubs”?) to encourage, confess and challenge each other to be adventurous, sacrificial, men who have a vision of nurturing “this generation and the generations to come”.